If One Day I Will Ever Learn

Posted: February 8, 2013 in Uncategorized
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“I’ve been left alone, even by the paparazzi, because what sells is sex and scandal. Absent that, they really don’t have much interest in you. I’m still married, still working, still happy.”~ Matt Damon

Perhaps one of these days I will learn. I apparently haven’t yet. But even in the 21st Century, things are just the same if not more than ever before as they were in the 20th Century.

Sex sells. Everyone’s buying.

There are days when I enjoy coming to this blog to see which blog posts have been read or looked at. And I’m always amazed that blog posts that I have written in the past, even to the very first time that I wrote on the subject, that anything I have written that deals with sex are the posts that are receiving the most attention.

Of course with as many stats that are there to this day, I cannot say for sure what part of the world is looking at one or many blog posts. I just can tell which countries have accessed the blog and which blog posts have been viewed.

I frequently gaze upon the stats to see exactly blog posts are popular and which are falling flat. And I often think that if I would write more on the subjects that are receiving the most attention, that the blog could do quite well. But its always the same: several blog posts that have the most attention are the sex blog posts.

A long time ago, I attempted to bring in a larger male audience by attaching photographs fetching to the male eye. Some sexy, some funny. But I have always tried to make them relevant. Even if I were attempting to draw in the males.

That is not to say that I do not appreciate the women who have been reading all of this time, I do appreciate all of you! Both male and female.


Sex is a part of who we are. It goes so far as to be a part of our core existence. We cannot survive without it.

But here we go again: sex.

So why is that?

Well, its basic animal instinct. It is something that is hardwired into our very bodies down to the core. Without it, the human species would not survive. So we have the drive and we have the urge within us.

We have the freedom to do as we please. And yet there are some that just are obsessed with sex. Generally speaking.

And as I ponder the possibility of focusing more and more with future blog posts to deal with sex and sexual behavior, I begin to wonder if its all a good idea.

I’m the kind of person that believes that what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Perhaps I’m just old. And now the thing to do in this day and age is to talk and to share. But I’m simply not good with that.

After all, who of you would like to read about the escapades (or maybe the lack thereof) of Dambreaker? Probably not too many of you. Especially those who are now following my blog on a regular basis as many of you actually have gotten to know me on a personal level. It would be… creepy to say the least.

Neither am I a professional. I don’t have the education or the knowledge as someone like say, Dr. Ruth. Its not my specialty. So to think that I could begin a fresh and new blog to devote only sexual content would be absurd in my opinion.

That is how I feel about it. At least when it comes to my own personal experiences. After all, its so easy to dilute the raunchy details of someone else rather than to come forward and explicitly speak of yourself.

And honestly I shouldn’t be so damned surprised about this. But for whatever reason I am from time to time. So I’ll have to just take it all and accept it and move on.

Again, I do appreciate everyone who does read this blog. Whether or you leave comments or actually click to follow the blog or do nothing more. It is truly the driving force that I have to keep this blog going.



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